does he want to come back home?
Well I don't think this is a midlife crisis seeing as were both in our only 32 but here it goes.
About 11 months ago we had our beautiful little boy. Shortly thereafter we started to have serious problems because I had postpartum depression and a very colicky baby. At the time we didn't know I had postpartum.
About 4 months later he went to work one day and never came home again. We only spoke 3 times between January and June. Then we saw each other at court and have been keeping in touch every other week or so since.
Over the weekend I got a text message asking me if he could come over to cuddle. I wasn't sure how to take it but I told him I had friends over and we were sitting out near the fire and having some beers but he was welcome to come over. He did.... he was very affectionate in front of everyone and alone he told me he was sorry and he missed me. And that he misses this..... he also kissed me told me he loved me and ended up staying the night.
He got somewhat emotional while talking about his daughter (from another marriage )and my oldest son missing him. Other than that nothing much happened. We talked a little the day after but I haven't talked to him since.
Does he really miss us? Does it sound like he wants to come home? Or was it just a booty call? Before we had our problems things were perfect! I still love him with everything I have. And would love it if we could work things outNoel's response
I don't know whether he wants to come home, or just likes sex with you now and then.
If he wants to come and stay the night again, you might want to tell him you have to talk things over and make some decisions first, re: what his intentions are regarding you and the family.