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Husband still having an affair after 20 years.

My husband of 37 years had an affair 20 years ago and had been seeing her for several years. Until I caught him (by recording his phone conversation) he denied and said I was crazy. Needless to say this broke my heart.I just found out recently he has kept in touch with her. What do I do?

Noel's response

If it has been going on that long, and he has been lying to you, you need to decide whether you are willing to keep living with it, as it is unlikely to change.

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