It has been seven months. Should I move on?
Hi, Noel you commented on my question that it sounds like my husband is going through a major midlife crisis. I am driving myself crazy as to always wondering what it is that I did wrong.
Should I let him be to do his own thing and move on with my life even though it is very hard as we were together for 25 years or more? At the moment he doesn't even wish to speak to me only sometimes he sends me a text if he needs something.
I can't go on like this it has been seven months. Would I be best to get legal advice and move on? Thanks!Noel's response
A. You did not do anything wrong.
B. Seven months is not an especially long time to wait.
C. Yes, move on with your life. Seeing your lawyer is a good idea. You may not want to necessarily do anything permanent just yet, but have things in place. You may or may not wish to get back together with him should he want to get back together with you. But yes, move on with your life, with or without him.