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My boyfriend after 4 months is not interested in sex anymore and I wonder why?

The Question

My boyfriend is 37 and we have been living together for the past 6 months and for some reason after 4 months of living together, he just stop being interested in having sex anymore or even being near me when in bed.

We had reconnected after 10 years of being split up and I thought with us being back together after all of this time that life would be great. He was a great guy who was very attentive to me and all he wanted to do was make me happy.

We were very sexually active, but lately it does not seem that way at all. He is very distant and just does not seem to want to be with me sexually and I just don't know what the problem is. I have tried to talk to him and just do not get a response. Please help explain why this could be happening and could it be the start of midlife crisis.

Noel's response

It sounds to me like a deeper problem than a midlife crisis. I suggest you talk to a sex therapist, and/or a marriage or relationship counsellor (alone or with him if he will go) who might have more insight into this situation.

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