My husband says he is not cheating but has not touched me in 9 years.
I have been married for over 30 years. The first 20 I don't think there was a day we didn't have sex, I never said no to him. We bought a new house and our bedroom door didn't have a lock and I ask to wait until we had a lock before we had sex as we have 5 kids. I need privacy around the children. Now he has not even kissed me in 9 years. He threw me out of the room and I have been sleeping in a chair for 9 years. He lets the kids sleep with him which was a rule, no kids in our bed. He has hidden our money taken my car away so I am home bound and swears he is not cheating, I keep finding new packs of Viagra. He says he uses it to masturbate because he can't get an erection. He is a Doctor and he said he would never cheat because they would just want his money. Our kids are almost grown and I am afraid he is going to leave me with nothing. I have no family. I sit alone day after day. I am sick with MS he won't take me to the doctor. I am now stuck upstairs because of the pain in my legs. My name is on nothing but was bought during marriage. He hides everything, I'm scared I will die alone homeless. What can I do?
He sounds cruel and abusive. I suggest you see a lawyer, and start taking action to secure some of the assets. As a spouse, you have a right to a share of the assets accumulated during your marriage.
If you do not take some kind of action, you MAY die alone and homeless!