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sleeping with a 17 year old female I work with. im a 42 year old male

I work with a 17 year old female. I'm a 42 year old male. she sends me picture messages of her semi naked, kisses me at work, i feel guilt but tonight she asked me to have sex with her in my car, I'm so tempted but don't know what to do.

Noel's response

You don't say whether you are married, so I assume you are not.

I would be very careful about the relationship, as she sounds a little 'needy' or has some big projection on you (maybe you are a 'father figure'?).

If you decide to have sex with her, be sure you are protected (for both a venereal disease and against pregnancy).

I doubt she would be a candidate for a long-term relationship.

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